A Different Route to the Divine Feminine – “God Is Not Alone”

God Is Not Alone: Our Mother-the Holy Spirit

By Marianne Widmalm
U.K.: Avalonia Books, 2015.
9 ½ x 7 ½ inch paperback, 452 pp., £24.99.

Reviewed by Virginia Ramey Mollenkott, Ph.D.

God Is Not Alone: Our Mother-the Holy SpiritThis is a learned book, packed with discussions of interest to Christian feminists who want to teach what the Bible has to say about the nature of God and male-female relationships.  For that very reason it is disgraceful that a London publisher did not practice decent proof-reading.  Marianne Widmalm grew up in Sweden, so perhaps English is her second language.  But there is no excuse for a publisher’s providing a beautiful cover and layout while allowing egregious errors in English grammar.  For instance, throughout most of the book the word prophesied is spelled prophesized; meanings are occasionally garbled, as in “they heared others speak in their own language;” and in at least a dozen places the verb does not agree with its subject, as in “The vegetarian claims does present a problem.”

A large percentage of Marianne Widmalm’s thesis is based on her analysis of Hebrew grammar.  So it was especially disrespectful for Avalonia Press to publish so many English errors, which reasonably could cause readers to doubt Widmalm’s accuracy with Hebrew grammar as well.  Fortunately, we are informed that the renowned Professor Noel Freedman published Widmalm’s article entitled “God’s Wife” in his journal The Biblical Historian (Feb. 2005).  So we can feel reassured that Freedman found Widmalm’s Hebrew exegesis acceptable for scholarly consideration.

Having said all that, I want to emphasize some of the remarkable discussions Widmalm provides as she builds up the evidence for her thesis.  The thesis itself has several facets: first, that when God said “let us make man in our image” (Gen. 1:26), a male Creator was talking to his wife; “hence, man and woman [are] created at the same time, equal, and I propose, mirroring the prototype couple in heaven” (p. 45).  Furthermore, Widmalm argues that Eve “was modelled in the image of the ancient Mother Goddess and wife of El; Asherah, when the two of them together created humans” (p. 56).

Although Widmalm provides an entire chapter about the nature of God and frequently discusses the divine name El-Shadday (or El-Shaddai), she never mentions that one of its possible translations is “the God with breasts,” sticking only with “Lord of the mountain.”  Clearly, El-Shadday as “a God with breasts” would undercut Widmalm’s concept that God is male, with a female consort; but some recognition of the “breasts” translation would have been welcome.

Widmalm admits that whenever the Hebrew scriptures mention Asherah, it is with denunciation, urging the people to worship only one God.  Nevertheless, “She did survive… in two different subtle yet profound forms” (p. 75).  The first of these survivals of God’s wife is the concept of Wisdom, personified as female in Proverbs and prominent in the Apocryphal books of Ben Sirach and the Wisdom of Solomon.  Then, as part of her lengthy discussion of Wisdom, Widmalm argues that “Wisdom and the Holy Spirit are one and the same” (p. 90)—i.e., both of them were present at the creation, so that Wisdom, the Spirit of God, and Asherah are one single identical “Power” (p. 91).  Therefore God the Holy Spirit would be the second subtle survival of Asherah to which Widmalm had referred.  Her discussions of Wisdom as a woman and the femininity of the Holy Spirit are valuable because they mention many textual details that are rarely discussed by feminists, not even when they are pointing out that in Hebrew, the word Ruah (spirit) is always feminine gender.

Widmalm includes references from early historians and church fathers and from early sources that were not included in the biblical canon but are very enlightening about what was considered true by many people during the first few centuries of Christianity.  In particular, she finds in the Dead Sea Scrolls “a re-occurring theme of a celestial Mother accompanying the Divine Father” (p. 197).  And she provides ample evidence that in the first centuries of Christianity, the Holy Spirit was understood as “no less than our Divine Mother” (p. 235).

So how did the God-language of Christians become so utterly male-oriented?  Widmalm attributes the change partly to the language change from Hebrew to Greek, so that the Hebraic femininity of the Holy Spirit disappeared into a Greek neuter.  And in the Nicene Creed “the Holy Spirit went from neuter to masculine because She was now part of an all-male Trinitarian doctrine.  With this, the Mother Goddess’ open presence vanished” (p. 277).

Widmalm provides an excellent discussion of what John’s Gospel says about Jesus and divinity, showing that “In order to defend monotheism, creeds were written that did not just put Jesus on a par with God but eventually made him to be God.  This separated Christianity’s [sic] more than anything else from its Hebrew origins and the religion that Jesus himself lived and defended” (p. 377).

Widmalm closes with a plea that Christians “stop overlooking the Divine feminine that is present in the Bible from beginning to end” (p. 398).  She reiterates that the Holy Spirit’s female gender has been lost in translation: “If churches worldwide would be true to what the Hebrew Scriptures, and the Aramaic/Hebrew speaking Jesus taught about this, that alone would revolutionize Christianity” (p. 404).

The Christian feminists I know would readily agree that contemporary Christianity needs to be revolutionized in the direction of a divine feminine.  But just as certainly, I would argue that the answer is not to worship a male God married to a female Holy Spirit who gives birth to Jesus by the baptism of the Spirit.  Rather, many of us would prefer to lift up the many biblical images of God as both our Father and our Mother; of Jesus as an androgynous male (possibly even transgender) and a Child of Wisdom who gives birth through the pangs of crucifixion and resurrection; and of a Holy Spirit who is an androgynous female (possibly transgender) who inhabits and enlivens women as well as men.

Widmalm admits that “If the gender of God is not accurately translated we simultaneously lose the Divine feminine presence that exist [sic] in Scripture and complements the male Yahweh” (pp. 98-99).  But she does not seem to realize that by making Yahweh exclusively male, she has already erased the Bible’s allusions to God as a nursing mother and so forth (see my book The Divine Feminine: Biblical Imagery of God as Female).

Widmalm also admits that constructing a Trinity “in an attempt to preserve monotheism” forced the Godhead into an all-male threesome, and that turning the Trinity into “male-male-female” presents “an inherent problem and imbalance” (p. 192).  Widmalm is right about that.  She has put her finger precisely on the reason that I and certain others prefer to see the female aspects of all three members of the Christian Trinity, rather than accepting Widmalm’s basic thesis that God is forever male and has a wife who has historically been transmuted into Wisdom and the Holy Spirit.  We may accept her study as historically accurate without making it the basis of our contemporary language about God Herself/Himself/Itself.

Widmalm’s 450 pages are also worth struggling through (grammatical errors and all) because they give so many flashes of insight into so many related topics.  Among them: the dating of various Gospels, canonical and otherwise; the textual sources for Shekinah as God’s female presence on earth; the Essene lifestyle; biblical ecology; Jesus as a Pharisee; the Sibylline Oracles; the concept of the divine Word in Judaism; women’s becoming men in the Gospels of Thomas and Philip; and how John’s Prologue differs from the rest of John’s Gospel.

All things considered, I recommend God Is Not Alone to any reader willing to “wrestle with the angel” in order to attain new insights.

© 2015 by Virginia Ramey Mollenkott and Christian Feminism Today

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Virginia Ramey Mollenkott
Virginia Ramey Mollenkott (1932-2020) is the author or co-author of 13 books, including several on women and religion. She is a winner of the Lambda Literary Award (in 2002) and has published numerous essays on literary topics in various scholarly journals. In 1975, she spoke at the first national gathering of the Evangelical Women’s Caucus in Washington, D.C., and delivered plenary speeches at almost every gathering of the organization over the next 40 years. She has lectured widely on lesbian, gay, and bisexual rights and has also been active in the transgender cause. Mollenkott was married to Judith Suzannah Tilton until her death in 2018, and has one son and three granddaughters. She earned her B.A. from Bob Jones University, her M.A. from Temple University, and her Ph.D. from New York University. She received a Lifetime Achievement award from SAGE, Senior Action in a Gay Environment, a direct-service and advocacy group for seniors in New York City in 1999. In 2017 she was awarded the inaugural Mother Eagle Award. Even in her late 80s, Virginia Ramey Mollenkott continued to use her doctorate in English to share insights with folks who visit the EEWC and Mollenkott websites, and with elderly people in the Cedar Creek Community educational programs. She deeply regretted that her severe arthritis forbade her presence at the social justice protests during the Trump presidency.


  1. The Trinity does not imbalance the Godhead unless we overlook the major factor that Jesus has a bride.

    If the Holy Spirit is the feminine divine essence, then when she came upon Mary to allow the conception of Baby Jesus, she merged enough with Mary to allow her to be the receptor of the Divine Seed. The seed of the Father implanted through the Mother into the maiden Mary.

    The Bride of Christ (disciples of Christ) are also filled with that Holy Spirit, continually teaching us to absorb wisdom through RELATIONSHIP with our Father, Mother and Lover. The highest concept of God’s laws have been abandoned, decreased to excessive human law by hard hearted legalists motivated by fear or narcissism.

    There are 2 words in the Bible translated as law/word. One, Lexus, is satanic bondage to laws that define us as “holy” if we keep them. These can include social law, where each demands favor at the cost of debasing others. Right now, such “law” is causing division among many who were making so much progress in learning and growing together, causing false judgment and hate between us.

    Think of Lex Luther, Superman’s (Messiah figure) enemy and Alexis (created to dominate and spy on us).

    The alternative is Logos. A picture is worth a thousand words. Jesus is the living symbol that represents the higher, unwritten laws of love, mercy and sacrifice. We absorb these through our relationship with our Holy Family.

    There’s so much more. Thanks for providing this venue!

  2. The true Trinity is, God The Father, God The Mother{The Holy Spirit}, and Their Spiritual Children.

    “Jerusalem who is above, is free. She is The Mother of us all.” Galations 4:26

    The name of God The Father is, Melquisedec and the name of God The Mother is, Lisbet.

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