To Revere the Image of God in Every Person

A ViewPoint by Virgina Ramey Mollenkott

Abstract CrossRecently a fellow resident at my senior retirement village said that it is very important to scour out the many welfare frauds who want to live on government handouts.  I asked her, “Who would want to live on handouts?  It’s humiliating to be unable to earn your own way.”

I got no response.  But later I thought about the fact that we get ourselves into moral difficulties whenever we assume that other people do not feel things the way we do, that other people’s emotions are not as fine-tuned as our own emotions are.  We know we want to sustain our lives in dignity, but unfortunately certain other people are willing to deceive the system for a living, and that makes them less human than ourselves.

What does this have to do with gender diversity?  Well, anyone who is comfortable living within the gender of the body they were born with can quickly slip into immoral judgments if he or she imagines that transpeople (unlike themselves) are simply rebels who do not want to be comfortable in  the bodies God gave them.

We human beings are internally very similar—masculine male, feminine female, feminine male, masculine female, male in a female body, female in a male body, intersexual person with both male and female bodily characteristics—no matter how we identify, all of us yearn to feel comfortable in our own bodies.  For some of us, feeling comfortable may means refusing to conform to various norms assumed by our society.  For others of us, feeling comfortable involves expensive major surgeries and hormone treatments to facilitate gender transition.

Those of us who are just naturally comfortable living within the bodies we were born with would be wise to recognize that this was sheer luck, nothing to our personal credit, just something to be thankful for.  Recognizing the difficult choices others may face through no intention or failure of their own, we would be wise to offer them our sincere support and admiration for their courage in taking steps toward becoming who they know they were meant to be.

Apparently God wanted to image Herself/Himself/Itself in an immense variety of ways.  Transgender and intersexual people are aspects of the glorious diversity of that divine image.  But sad to say, recently religious leaders have fired transgender theologian Heath Adam Ackley (formerly Heather Clements), and have punished newly “out” transgender minister David Weekley after thirty years of excellent ministry.  By these actions “Christian” leaders have rejected and scorned the Sacred Presence in these godly transpeople.

It is my prayer that all of us will eventually learn to recognize and revere the image of God in every person of every conceivable gender identity, along with the many other diversities of appearance, belief systems, preferences, and whatsoever differences may occur to us.

© 2013 by EEWC-Christian Feminism Today

Virginia Ramey Mollenkott
Virginia Ramey Mollenkott (1932-2020) is the author or co-author of 13 books, including several on women and religion. She is a winner of the Lambda Literary Award (in 2002) and has published numerous essays on literary topics in various scholarly journals. In 1975, she spoke at the first national gathering of the Evangelical Women’s Caucus in Washington, D.C., and delivered plenary speeches at almost every gathering of the organization over the next 40 years. She has lectured widely on lesbian, gay, and bisexual rights and has also been active in the transgender cause. Mollenkott was married to Judith Suzannah Tilton until her death in 2018, and has one son and three granddaughters. She earned her B.A. from Bob Jones University, her M.A. from Temple University, and her Ph.D. from New York University. She received a Lifetime Achievement award from SAGE, Senior Action in a Gay Environment, a direct-service and advocacy group for seniors in New York City in 1999. In 2017 she was awarded the inaugural Mother Eagle Award. Even in her late 80s, Virginia Ramey Mollenkott continued to use her doctorate in English to share insights with folks who visit the EEWC and Mollenkott websites, and with elderly people in the Cedar Creek Community educational programs. She deeply regretted that her severe arthritis forbade her presence at the social justice protests during the Trump presidency.


  1. I disagree that our comfort or discomfort with our bodies is a stroke of sheer luck, but I agree that all of us are called to be understanding and compassionate to everyone. Trans or not, we are here to learn and not to judge.
    Long live diversity and love!

  2. Thank you so much. As a trans Anglican priest in Toronto Canada, part of my ministry is to trans people and their families. Your words will be a huge help to the people with whom I meet, and are comforting and encouraging to me personally. Every blessing. Margaret/Michael.


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